Damilola Adegbite, a Nollywood actress, has urged single mothers to never deny their children the opportunity to experience fatherly love.
The stunning Nollywood actress has urged single mothers to give their children access to their fathers.
On Sunday, in honor of Father’s Day, the actress took to Instagram to speak to single mothers about the importance of a father in their children’s lives.
”There are three categories of single mothers: the ones whose children’s fathers cannot be in their life (e.g dead, incarcerated etc.);
The ones whose children’s fathers have abandoned them or who do more harm than good being a part of their lives (e.g cases of domestic violence); and then lastly, the ones who intentionally keep their children/child away from their father because they are angry, bitter, hurt and vengeful.
“To ‘category 3′ mums, today is a good day to reassess the situation.
There are many awesome fathers who genuinely crave to be in their children’s lives but are not allowed to by their moms.
Trust me, I understand how you feel.
Please soften your heart towards them and make decisions based on what’s best for your child.”
Damilola Adegbite urged single women to engage their children’s fathers as much as possible in their lives, noting that they won’t be babies forever.
“You will not always be able to keep them separated from their father.
May our children not grow up and blame us or despise us for depriving them of their fathers’ love.
“Happy Father’s Day to all the amazing dads.
You are loved and appreciated.”